The rise of soft plans
Big nights out are losing their charm. Crowded bars, loud music, and expensive cocktails? Many Aussies are saying thanks but no thanks. Instead, “soft plans” are taking over. These are low-key catch-ups that feel effortless yet still fun.
What counts as a soft plan
Think wine on the couch with your best mate, brunch that somehow stretches for hours, sunset walks along the beach, or even a cosy dinner at home. The vibe is relaxed, no dress codes, no pressure, just good conversation and laughter.
@amirthevet Sorry can’t come out tonight . I’m doing bad girl shit at home …
♬ Turn The Lights Off – Radio Edit – Kato & Dj Jose
Why it’s catching on
It’s not just about money (though drinks, Ubers, and event tickets aren’t cheap). People are tired, burnt out from work, life admin, and overscheduled weekends. Soft plans offer connection without stress.
The social media effect
Apps like TikTok and Instagram have helped spread the trend, with the “soft life” aesthetic making staying in feel aspirational. Cozy vibes, cute snacks, and slow weekends are suddenly enviable.
@whitneyport Staying in over going out any day. #withwhit ♬ original sound – Whitney Port-Rosenman
The verdict
Big nights out aren’t disappearing, but soft plans are proving they might just be the more fun way to spend the weekend. Who says staying in can’t be the highlight of your week?
